thebitterbabe

Hugo Schwyzer’s controversial past has unfortunately caused his disappearance from feminist discourse. I don’t have a clear opinion on him, but I do know he was one of the few male writers to call out other men on their ageism and to take a critical stance on touchy subjects such as this:

http://jezebel.com/5870164/the-popularity-and-perfectionism-behind-butt-sex

I’ve never had to field that particular request, but I do find that men take their cues from porn these days and generally want to act out the scenarios they have become habituated to. All the “acting” gets a bit boring and the creativity and joy of sex has felt stifled to me.