When one of my friends who is single leaves me a voicemail or text, the message she leaves is ALWAYS along the lines of, “Hope you are out on a date having fun.” She means well, she really does, but it annoys the heck out of me.
I am rarely out on a date having fun. BUT. I am often having fun, or at least feeling content, doing something else. Without meaning to, she negates the rest (the bulk!) of my existence.